alphabet dating o is for outdoor concert

Alphabet Dating – O is for Outdoor Concert

I love it when bands and singers from back in the day make a comeback so imagine my excitement when I found out that Craig David would be performing at Rochester Castle Gardens this summer. Normally a venue for the sorts of music your parents listen to, I was excited that I could relive my teenage years out in the fresh air, with a beautiful castle backdrop and no claustrophobic train journey home! Sweet!

The castle itself was built around 1087 and to be honest I thought 2017 was going to be the ruin of it when the bassline dropped (see what I did there?). There was some serious bass. Anyway we packed ourselves a fancy little picnic and found ourselves a nice spot on the grass, not too close to the stage but close enough that we weren’t in the ‘chair section’.

outdoor concert

There were a couple of support acts and then Craig David hit the stage sometime after 9pm. He sang some of his old classics like Rewind and 7 Days, did some of his new tracks and he also performed a few covers. Everyone seemed to have a really good time and Craig himself seemed like such a genuine, humble and nice bloke up on the stage. The big screen showed his face almost like he couldn’t quite believe he was back and singing to a crowd who knew all the words to his songs. The bizarre thing I found was the number of teens and tweens at this concert who weren’t even born when C.D. was at his peak of fame! Made me feel kinda old…. Didn’t stop me from dancing though!

Craig David at Rochester Castle Gardens

We were very fortunate that the weather held out for us. Due to our concert selling out so quickly, they added another date which was two days earlier and the poor souls that attended that one had to stand in torrential rain the entire time! And now you know why us Brits are obsessed with the weather.

Craig David playing an outdoor concert at Rochester Castle Gardens in Kent

I had a great evening and will definitely keep my eye out for any more castle concerts that take my fancy.

Have you ever been to an outdoor concert? Or who would you most like to see make a comeback? If you enjoyed this, you might enjoy some of my other alphabet dates.

Craig David all over your * boing *

Alphabet Dating N is for Nandos and Netflix

Alphabet Dating – N is for Nandos and Netflix

We struggled with coming up with something exciting and blogworthy for ‘N’. But then we remembered that not all alphabet dates have to be as adventurous and expensive as Cuba or as off-beat as Friends Fest or Escape Room.

So N is for Nandos and Netflix. Simple. Affordable.

As I like to eat veggie when I can, I opted for a veggie pitta. To me, Nandos is all about the corn on the cob and chips with perinaise anyway, I am perfectly content without the chicken which probably makes me strange but OMG… perinaise! Yum yum!

Nandos - chips, veggie pitta and corn on the cob

Err yeah so, Nandos is Nandos. Cheap and filling. And I will refrain from referring to it as a ‘Cheeky Nandos’ because that saying annoys me.

And then Netflix. While we’re patiently waiting for Stranger Things to return and we’ve sadly given up on Sense8, I’ve started getting in to Girlboss and you know what, so far I like it. Girlboss stars Britt Robertson and is based on the story of Sophia Amoruso, a rebellious misfit turned real-life Girlboss. Sophia started her own vintage clothing ebay business at the age of 23, which ended up being the beginning of the multi-million dollar fashion empire known as Nasty Gal.

Netflix - Girlboss

Unfortunately, much like many things I enjoy, the show has been discontinued by Netflix. Boo. But still, if I enjoy the rest of the series I might check out Amoruso’s book #GIRLBOSS for some inspiration.

Of course there are other things you can do on date night for the letter ‘N’ but they’re NSFW so I’ll leave it here. Night night x

A view from the top: St Peter’s Basilica – Vatican City

Did you know Vatican City is the smallest country in the world? Pretty cool, huh? It’s not just a city in the middle of Italy, it is an actual independent city-state, where it issues its own stamps and passports and everything. So when in Rome… you can’t really pass up an opportunity to go see it for yourself! My favourite part of Vatican City was climbing the dome of St Peter’s Basilica to get some spectacular views over St Peter’s Square and Rome.

view from the top of St Peter's Basilica

Because the Vatican City is a religious site, the dress code must be respected – no shorts, bare shoulders or short skirts. For us visiting in November, this wasn’t a problem as it was pretty chilly. We also found the queues in November perfectly fine, it took us around half an hour to get through security checks. Again, this might be somewhat more lengthy during summer.

There are two ways to climb the dome – climb all the way by foot (551 steps) or go part way in the lift and climb the rest (320 steps). There is a slight price difference, obviously climbing by foot is slightly cheaper.

People standing at the highest point of the climb at the top of the dome (St Peter's Basilica)
People standing at the highest point of the climb at the top of the dome

Pros – The view! The climb is quite an experience but it’s worth it when you reach the top, even just for bragging rights and a quick instagram snap.

Cons – 551 steps is A LONG WAY! My dad didn’t even bother coming up the dome with us as he hates heights but to be honest, I think he might have found the climb too much of a challenge. In addition to the number of steps there are also parts that are very narrow, especially where you’re climbing inside the curve of the dome.

View inside the Basilica from the interior balcony - St Peter's Basilica, Vatican City.
View inside the Basilica from the interior balcony

Surprises – After the initial climb (or where I believe the lift may take you to) you reach the interior balcony where you are still inside the dome and can look down on the people visiting inside St Peter’s. At first we were a bit like, is this it?! But then we realised you can climb a little further to get those spectacular views from outside and over the square. Oh and there’s a cafe and shop on a terrace part way up too.

Verdict – When in Rome… make this a priority.


If you liked this then you might enjoy the view from Campanile di San Marco in Venice or any of my other View from the Top posts.

Afternoon Tea at the Secret Garden

For my dear Nan’s 80th ahem 30th birthday (as the waiter so politely suggested), my Mum and I took her out for afternoon tea at the Secret Garden in Mersham-Le-Hatch, Ashford in Kent. Tell you what, it is a bit secret as we had a little difficulty in finding it!

View across the wildflower garden at the Secret Garden restaurant near Ashford in Kent

Once we arrived, we walked through the gardens and requested to be seated outside as it was a nice sunny day and we don’t get too many of those in England. Only downside was a few uninvited guests, but to be fair we did have prior warning about the wasps at this time of year but it’s alright, my Mum and Nan are cockneys so hard as nails, scared ’em all off with a cockney glare hahaha!

We were served our afternoon tea on chintzy mismatched china and alongside our large pot of English breakfast tea, we had finger sandwiches which were the typical afternoon tea sandwiches (cucumber & cream cheese, salmon, egg, ham), scones with cream and jam, and then a selection of sweet treats. The wasps enjoyed the jam in particular.

The desserts on offer that day (because they vary depending on season) were sticky toffee choux bun, chocolate cake, carrot cake, banoffee pie in a little pot and then a small fudge and fruit pastille type thing which were very sweet!

Afternoon tea at the Secret Garden

I didn’t manage to eat all mine but the nice waiter gave us some boxes so we could take our leftovers home. Who manages to eat all their afternoon tea anyway, right? There’s always at least one scone left isn’t there!

After tea, we had planned on taking a little walk around the garden (which FYI doubles up as a wedding venue, however no wedding was on that day) but sadly somewhere between dessert and our last cups of tea it started raining <insert grumble about typical British weather here> so we just took a couple of snaps and left.

It was an enjoyable afternoon and pretty standard pricing at £21.95pp for the traditional tea.

You can get married at The Secret Garden

And a sunny day soon turns in to rain!

If you liked this then you might like afternoon tea at Chilston Park Hotel.

Alphabet Dating - K is for Kids for the day

Alphabet Dating – K is for Kids for the day

Well we finally got round to our ‘K’ date! We decided to go to London and be kids for the day – something that anyone can do anywhere and is pretty much open to interpretation, in fact I reckon we could be kids for the day for several more dates and still not run out of things to do!

Our date began at the Natural History Museum, somewhere that neither of us have been since we were school children and my husband had told me that he was particularly fond of dinosaurs as a child. The other thing about the Natural History Museum is that its free! Perfect!

I enjoyed the animal exhibitions such as learning about toothless mammals and mammals with pouches. We also got to see some ginormous antlers, as well as a Moeritherium – one of the earliest known relatives to the elephant. And a Kirk’s Dik Dik because I was disappointed I didn’t see them at Chester Zoo (even though this was just a taxidermy one in a glass display).

Moeritherium - relative of the elephant
Moeritherium – relative of the elephant
Kirk's Dik Dik - Natural History Museum
So cute

Of course, I’m not gonna lie, the friggin great big animatronic T-Rex they had in the dinosaur bit was pretty awesome!  Yep dinosaurs in general are pretty amazing when you think about it.

T-Rex at the Natural History Museum in London

After lunch (which should have been a McDonalds Happy Meal but wasn’t because neither of us fancied it) we headed to our next stop – Alice’s Adventures Underground. Now you may remember that I already had a Wonderland experience 2 years ago with some friends, well it’s back and because I banged on about it so much first time around my husband decided he wanted to go. This of course represents a huge part of my childhood as I watched this Disney classic more times than I can tell you.

Alice Underground London

This time I chose the ‘eat me’ route and became a diamond. We met the frog, Cheshire Cat and Humpty Dumpty. We inspected the jam tarts that were being made (I was forced to hold the baby pig… not real, sadly) and we also heard the Mock Turtle sing.

Instead of eating the jams tarts (like I did last time), as a diamond we were spying on one of the other suits who were eating the jam tarts!

The ‘falling down the rabbit hole’ part as well as meeting Tweedledee and Tweedledum, plus the tea party scene, were all the same as last time around. The court scene, however, felt slightly different and I’m pretty certain that the guilty suit who ate the tarts was different to last time around too.

If you haven’t a clue what I am on about (we’re all mad here) then begin at the beginning and read about the last time I fell down the rabbit hole in Alice’s Adventures Underground.

Alice Underground

Play some flamingo croquet

After a brief pitstop in Skinny Dip to buy myself a fabulous new purse, our day of fun ended with freakshakes at Maxwell’s in Covent Garden. We ordered the Salted Caramel Donut Freakshake and the Unicorn Freakshake – you can guess which one mine was. The Unicorn Freakshake looks beautiful but the bubblegum flavour was a bit too much for me and I think I would have enjoyed it more if it had been strawberry flavoured. Ah well!

Freakshakes at Maxwell's in Covent Garden

And there ends our day of being kids, let’s not dwell too much on me accidentally using the men’s toilets at Alice in Wonderland and hubby ordering himself a beer to go with his freakshake haha.

We did want to go to a Lego exhibition and Ballie Ballerson (the ball pit bar) but we were tired and ended up just going home. There are so many possibilities with the ‘Kids for the day’ date idea ranging from spending the day at a theme park (Disneyland please!) to a movie marathon of all your favourite childhood films!

What would be your perfect ‘Kids for the day’ date? If you need some suggestions then why not have a quick read of my 10 ways to embrace your inner child.