My New Years Resolutions

Well well well, look who’s back.

So after a bit of a hiatus I thought I’d come crawling back to my little blog space. Rather than leaping right in to more travel tips and tales, I have decided to ease myself in by writing a good ol’ list post and as ’tis the season (and let’s face it, you probably won’t hear from me until sometime in 2017 now) I thought I’d write a bit of a new years resolution post.

Now I’m not going to do anything silly like promise to blog every other day because let’s all be honest – that ain’t gonna happen but here are some things I would like to focus on for the new year ahead.

1. Follow a passion and learn something new

When certain aspects of life become stale, it’s time to shake things up. So I have just started doing a distance learning course in something I’ve always been interested in but never pursued. So far I’m really enjoying it but the only downside to doing the course is that it gives me alot less time for blogging. However, I’m learning alot and it could lead me onto something amazing if I’m lucky enough. But if not, then at least I tried.

2. Reignite my creative spark

I was a very creative child but somewhere along the way between discouraging art teachers and the world of work, my creative spark got extinguished. I miss being a creative free spirit and often complain to my hubby that I have no talents (besides being able to lick my own elbow LOL). Perhaps if I’d stuck at my creative endeavours I’d feel more satisfied with myself.

My New Years Resolutions

3. Look after my mental well-being

I have anxiety. I’ve been dealing with this shit for over 10 years now but it does seem to be a more openly discussed topic these days. I have had therapy. I have also been prescribed medication (which gave me awful side effects). Unfortunately where I got better at handling the type of anxiety I had, it has just morphed itself into a different kind of anxiety. I have good days and bad days (which I hide very well) and I’ve come to realise that if I’m going to get better then I need to invest more energy into helping myself on those bad days, because no one else is going to.

4. Be more conscientious 

I’m someone who can be a little naive and impulsive sometimes. I feel that now is the time I need to pay a bit more attention to the things that I buy, starting with shopping for cruelty-free cosmetics and toiletries. I know its just a small change, but baby steps and all that. Oh and I’m always open to recommendations for new brands to try!

Christmas cruelty-free beauty haul ...think my mum went nuts in The Body Shop! :)
Christmas cruelty-free beauty haul …think my mum went nuts in The Body Shop! 🙂

5. Do more volunteer work

Come February I will have been volunteering at the cat shelter for a year, which I am proud of because I am hopeless at sticking to things (remind me again why I’m writing this list?!). As much as I love the cats and what I do, I know that I won’t be there forever and would eventually like to donate my time to other good causes.

How about you? Do you believe in New Years Resolutions? And have you made any?

Thank you for reading this post, I raise my glass to you on New Years Eve and wish you a happy, healthy and prosperous 2017!

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Alphabet Dating - H is for Halloween

Alphabet Dating – H is for Halloween

OBVIOUSLY if your letter ‘H’ date for Alphabet Dating ends up being in October then you HAVE to make it H for Halloween, am I right?

Everyone seems to have gone super crazy for Halloween this year and I think the UK are slowly catching up with America in our festivities. So anyway, this year hubby and I chose to go to one of those fright night things where you basically pay for people to scare you.

Kent Life were hosting their Halloween Spooktacular for the first time this year so we decided to go check it out. Kent Life is normally a family friendly fun day out with farm animals, it describes itself as “Kent’s Rural Heritage Experience”, however the Halloween nights were strictly for over 16s only. The theme “Kent-aminated” (contaminated, gettit?) was the zombie apocalypse. We love The Walking Dead so we were up for this. Kinda… eek!

Anyway, when we arrived we were “checked in” as survivors of the apocalypse and given overalls to wear. We were then taken with around 12 other paying guests to a tent (which was a circus tent or something during the day) but was now the hospital tent during the apocalypse. I knew that those hospital trolleys weren’t all that they seemed and of course, there was a zombie underneath one of those sheets!

We were all freaked out and laughing as we ran out of the tent and onto a train. Sadly our guide was dragged away before she could get on the train and met her fate at the jaws of the undead. The train was a cutesy land train by day, but vital zombie protection by night and sure enough, there they were banging on the windows as we passed.

A new guide met us at the other end and took us past the fields of goats (nothing to do with the evening, those goats live there) where we saw a zombie munching on a dead (fake) sheep. We then ran into the church, because I forgot to mention that you can actually get married at Kent Life.

The best bit though was as we were waiting in the church, anticipating what might happen next as the zombies banged on all the windows around us, a zombie girl appeared behind us out of nowhere and then all 14 of us screamed and ran towards the exit.

We then ran up a hill with zombies following us, headed towards the safe zone which turned out to be a bar where we had a drink that was included in our ticket prices.

The whole experience only lasted half an hour which I don’t think was really long enough. We also felt that they could have had more zombie actors and perhaps added something like us smearing fake blood on our overalls and then walking through a field of zombies, like in The Walking Dead. We were a bit confused about the overalls to be honest. All in all I found the anticipation of not knowing what was going to happen far scarier than the experience itself but I was grateful that the team asked for our feedback at the end.

A couple of years ago we did something similar at Fort Amherst (the place we went to on our E date) which had alot more to it and was much scarier… perhaps a little too scary – clown with chainsaw I am talking about you! So our expectations for Kent-aminated were already high before we had even got there. Having said that, Fort Amherst had the edge before they’d even done anything given that their venue is a legit haunted 300 year old fort.

Kent Life did well for a first try and although it didn’t quite meet my expectations (am I secretly relieved? maybe!) I would be interested to see what they plan for future Halloweens!

P.S. Excuse the lack of pictures, we had to switch our phones off so we didn’t interfere with the radio signals 😉

zombie-apocalypse

3 responses to “Alphabet Dating – H is for Halloween”

  1. I went to zombie scare event last Halloween and absolutely loved it! I do agree that half an hour doesn’t sound nearly long enough though – the one I went on was a little over an hour I think. Terrifying but an awful lot of fun!

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Alphabet Dating - G Date Ideas

Alphabet Dating – G is for Gigs and Geocaching

So it wasn’t only this blog that took a bit of a back burner over the last month or so, but we stretched our imaginations a bit when it came to Alphabet Dating and the letter ‘G’.

Originally we had considered Go Karting or Go Ape. Not sure what happened with the Go Karting idea but the Go Ape ended up being a girl’s weekend away at Centre Parcs for me where I tackled their Aerial Adventure among other things. I’m adventurous in the ‘jetsetting and exploring’ kinda way, not so much ‘hauling my ass up a tree and trying not to lose my footing’ kinda way.

Zipline at the end of the aerial adventure at Elveden Centre Parcs
I’m the grey dot on the zipline

Of course, Geocaching makes for a perfectly good ‘G’ date and we have done plenty of that over the summer. We’ve even hidden our first cache! If you’re interested in the idea of the world’s largest treasure hunt, then check out my beginners guide to geocaching.

A perfect example of a Geocache

Another suggestion for a ‘G’ date would be to go to a gig. Fortunately for us, we won tickets to see Robbie Williams at the Apple Music Festival which we now deem to be our ‘G’ date. I’ve always quite liked Robbie but never enough to deal with the stresses of buying tickets. I HATE buying concert tickets! You know the whole, will I get a good view? how much?! What’s this extortionate booking fee all about?!

Apple Music Festival 2016 - The Roundhouse in Camden, London

Anyway, the Apple Music Festival took place at The Roundhouse in Camden over a course of several nights (10 or 12 I can’t remember). Each of their selected artists would be performing for one night only. If I’m honest, I had wanted Britney tickets but no such luck. Still Robbie put on an awesome show and I will never forget singing along to ‘Strong’ at the top of my lungs! Robbie even brought his dad out on stage and they did a duet which was cute.  Predictably he opened with ‘Let me entertain you’ and closed with an encore of ‘Angels’ followed by a new track he was promoting, but it all made perfect sense. Oh and incase you were wondering, he didn’t strip to ‘Rock DJ’ but he did show us his tiger pants! Grr!

Robbie Williams gig at The Roundhouse in Camden, London

I gotta say, The Roundhouse was a pretty good venue too. Although it did get quite squashy and there were some annoying people watching the entire experience through their phone screens (see my earlier rant about mobile phones). We did get a pretty good view of The Entertainer himself so all in all a good night and a grrreat ‘G’ date!

We’ve picked up the slack a bit with ‘H’ and ‘I’ so stay tuned folks!

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Around the world in 7 weeks - a video diary

Around the World in 7 weeks – a video diary

Around the world in 7 weeks

Exactly one year ago today, on 16th October 2015, me and my husband were on a flight from London to Singapore to embark on a whirlwind seven week trip around the world. Regretting never taking a gap year as students, we decided to ask for a career break and were granted those weeks – not as long as we had hoped for but still long enough for an epic adventure.

We had a brief two night stopover in Singapore before flying on to Australia for a couple of weeks – Oz being one of my all time favourite places. The main reason for our desire to head Down Under however, was an (almost) month-long road trip around New Zealand. After our epic road trip we stopped over in Fiji for some relaxation and culture (I never thought I would ever get to Fiji!) before finally crossing over the International Date Line and reliving 1st December all over again in Los Angeles where we spent a few more nights.

So for you, in video form, here is our awesome, amazing adventure!

Around the world in 7 weeks …in 7 minutes!

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The Problem with Pinterest, Technology and Blogging

Hello.

Long time, no see – or at least that’s how it feels.

But rather than doing the whole ‘sorry for my absence’ thing like I usually do, I make no apologies because I’ve been working my arse off at my day job putting in the extra hours trying to meet deadlines and you know what, when you’re sat looking at a screen constantly for over 9 hours a day, the last thing you want to be doing when you get home is spending yet more time at a computer. I think I’m tiring of technology in general.

I went to see Bridget Jones’s Baby on the day it was released. I absolutely love those movies and really enjoyed this one too. However, the woman sitting next to me felt the compulsive need to keep checking her phone. Annoying yes, but it made me think – if you can’t even sit through a 2 hour movie without looking at your phone umpteen times, then you have a serious problem.

Why are we all so obsessed with our phones and the internet?

I’m also slowly turning my back on social media. While at present, I am still quite fond of Twitter, sadly Pinterest has gone from hero to zero. Pinterest used to be my favourite, I joined initially when I was planning my wedding to gain ideas and inspiration, which then after the wedding progressed into a place where I could ‘keep’ recipes to try and hairstyles I liked. I enjoyed Pinterest as I found it uplifting and motivating until they introduced their ‘Picked for you’ pins – pins they suggest you might like based on what you’ve previously looked at.

They’ve got it all wrong. Sharing cute animal pictures and heartwarming rescue stories DOES NOT mean I want to see horrific images of animal cruelty splashed all over my feed. I have tried blocking, unfollowing and reporting but Pinterest keeps showing me progressively worse things that once you have see, you can’t unsee. One picture too many (which reduced me to tears) has resulted in me contacting them to complain and deleting the app. I am still waiting for a response.

So although I had high hopes and intentions of growing this blog in 2016, sadly it is not going to happen. My motivation has gone. I’ve lost my blogging mojo. Still, there’s no point forcing it. Only do it while it’s fun. So until that time comes again, I’m going to be off having real fun in the real world (and planning my next two adventures!).

Mount Cook, New Zealand

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