Alphabet dating Q is for quad biking

Alphabet Dating – Q is for Quad Biking

Just what do you do for Alphabet Dating letter Q? Well here’s an idea… QUAD BIKING!

Both newbies to Quad Biking, hubby and I headed up to Tulley’s Farm in West Sussex, home to Southern Pursuits – the ultimate destination for adrenaline-fuelled activity days in the South East of England.

Before we got going on the Quad Bikes, we had a go at archery because neither of us had really tried that before either, plus Southern Pursuits have quite a few activities to choose from, be it archery, quad biking, clay pigeon shooting, air rifles or even axe throwing! (hey if you’re thinking about starting up Alphabet Dating then there’s plenty of ‘A’ date ideas right here!).

Archery at Southern Pursuits - just a short drive from Gatwick airport

Archery was fun but SO TIRING! Particularly for me as I have the upper body strength of a toddler! Hubby did quite well at it, however my archery skills won’t have Katniss Everdeen quaking in her boots anytime soon.

Next up for us was the main event – quad biking! We were quite fortunate that it was just the two of us, plus our patient and friendly instructor Tom. We were briefed on all the safety instructions, shown how to control the bikes and then we were on our way around the nursery track. The quad bikes were alot more powerful than I expected them to be so I felt a little nervous at the beginning. Southern Pursuits actually use powerful Yamaha 350cc quad bikes whereas most activity centres like this only use 125cc bikes.

Driving on the nursery track at Southern Pursuits quad biking day.

However, once we were off the nursery track and into the woods my nerves vanished and I was having a great time! We drove through the trees, along muddy paths, up hills, down hills and through big puddles. By some sort of miracle only my boots got dirty, not sure how I managed that but we had brought along some spare clothes and shoes for the journey home just incase.

Muddy quad biking at Southern Pursuits

Alphabet dating letter Q

The team at Southern Pursuits were all friendly, fun and professional and the place itself is a great day out for stags, hens, team building events or just those looking for alphabet dating letter Q ideas. It’s also just a short drive from Gatwick so great for tourists too.

Quad biking starts at £45pp + VAT and archery is from £17.50pp + VAT but there are package deals to be had too.

Quad biking fun at Southern Pursuits

Disclaimer: we were invited by Southern Pursuits to try out their activities, but all words and opinions are my own. Photography courtesy of Southern Pursuits.

Alphabet Dating - P is for Punting

Alphabet Dating – P is for Punting

P is for Punting but it can also stand for Peaceful and Picturesque.

What is punting?

Punting is simply travelling along a river in a flat-bottomed boat (known as a punt) while a guy or gal uses a pole to steer the boat. I guess it’s the English equivalent to one of the gondolas in Venice, although a professional punter (is that what they’re called?) might disagree.

Peaceful punting

Punting Canterbury

It’s quite a popular thing to do if you visit Cambridge (punting on the Cam) but as we live a lot closer to Canterbury, our punting experience took place on the Great Stour River.

Our trip was booked through Westgate Punts and was very peaceful and relaxing. I kept expecting the Boatman to start singing but then I remembered that this isn’t that kind of place. We saw plenty of nature including ducks, moorhens and their little fluffy baby chicks, as well as beautiful blue dragonflies that kept bobbing around near the boat.

Beautiful Canterbury, Kent

Much to our amusement we also saw a large husky type dog swimming in the river at one point, with me joking about it being the weirdest looking duck I’ve seen. Don’t panic though folks – the dog soon got out of the river and rejoined his owners!

Husky dog having a swim

Our boatman also pulled over to pick some blackberries off a bush which he and hubby ate. I was pretty dubious but sounds like they were quite sharp tasting so I didn’t miss out on much there.

I’ve visited Canterbury many times but seeing it from the river showed me parts of it I had never seen before. Our boat ride lasted around 50 minutes and was a pleasant way to start the day!

sitting on a punt

Punting Canterbury

If you enjoyed this then you might like some of my other alphabet dating adventures, which you can find right here.

alphabet dating o is for outdoor concert

Alphabet Dating – O is for Outdoor Concert

I love it when bands and singers from back in the day make a comeback so imagine my excitement when I found out that Craig David would be performing at Rochester Castle Gardens this summer. Normally a venue for the sorts of music your parents listen to, I was excited that I could relive my teenage years out in the fresh air, with a beautiful castle backdrop and no claustrophobic train journey home! Sweet!

The castle itself was built around 1087 and to be honest I thought 2017 was going to be the ruin of it when the bassline dropped (see what I did there?). There was some serious bass. Anyway we packed ourselves a fancy little picnic and found ourselves a nice spot on the grass, not too close to the stage but close enough that we weren’t in the ‘chair section’.

outdoor concert

There were a couple of support acts and then Craig David hit the stage sometime after 9pm. He sang some of his old classics like Rewind and 7 Days, did some of his new tracks and he also performed a few covers. Everyone seemed to have a really good time and Craig himself seemed like such a genuine, humble and nice bloke up on the stage. The big screen showed his face almost like he couldn’t quite believe he was back and singing to a crowd who knew all the words to his songs. The bizarre thing I found was the number of teens and tweens at this concert who weren’t even born when C.D. was at his peak of fame! Made me feel kinda old…. Didn’t stop me from dancing though!

Craig David at Rochester Castle Gardens

We were very fortunate that the weather held out for us. Due to our concert selling out so quickly, they added another date which was two days earlier and the poor souls that attended that one had to stand in torrential rain the entire time! And now you know why us Brits are obsessed with the weather.

Craig David playing an outdoor concert at Rochester Castle Gardens in Kent

I had a great evening and will definitely keep my eye out for any more castle concerts that take my fancy.

Have you ever been to an outdoor concert? Or who would you most like to see make a comeback? If you enjoyed this, you might enjoy some of my other alphabet dates.

Craig David all over your * boing *

Alphabet Dating N is for Nandos and Netflix

Alphabet Dating – N is for Nandos and Netflix

We struggled with coming up with something exciting and blogworthy for ‘N’. But then we remembered that not all alphabet dates have to be as adventurous and expensive as Cuba or as off-beat as Friends Fest or Escape Room.

So N is for Nandos and Netflix. Simple. Affordable.

As I like to eat veggie when I can, I opted for a veggie pitta. To me, Nandos is all about the corn on the cob and chips with perinaise anyway, I am perfectly content without the chicken which probably makes me strange but OMG… perinaise! Yum yum!

Nandos - chips, veggie pitta and corn on the cob

Err yeah so, Nandos is Nandos. Cheap and filling. And I will refrain from referring to it as a ‘Cheeky Nandos’ because that saying annoys me.

And then Netflix. While we’re patiently waiting for Stranger Things to return and we’ve sadly given up on Sense8, I’ve started getting in to Girlboss and you know what, so far I like it. Girlboss stars Britt Robertson and is based on the story of Sophia Amoruso, a rebellious misfit turned real-life Girlboss. Sophia started her own vintage clothing ebay business at the age of 23, which ended up being the beginning of the multi-million dollar fashion empire known as Nasty Gal.

Netflix - Girlboss

Unfortunately, much like many things I enjoy, the show has been discontinued by Netflix. Boo. But still, if I enjoy the rest of the series I might check out Amoruso’s book #GIRLBOSS for some inspiration.

Of course there are other things you can do on date night for the letter ‘N’ but they’re NSFW so I’ll leave it here. Night night x

A view from the top: St Peter’s Basilica – Vatican City

Did you know Vatican City is the smallest country in the world? Pretty cool, huh? It’s not just a city in the middle of Italy, it is an actual independent city-state, where it issues its own stamps and passports and everything. So when in Rome… you can’t really pass up an opportunity to go see it for yourself! My favourite part of Vatican City was climbing the dome of St Peter’s Basilica to get some spectacular views over St Peter’s Square and Rome.

view from the top of St Peter's Basilica

Because the Vatican City is a religious site, the dress code must be respected – no shorts, bare shoulders or short skirts. For us visiting in November, this wasn’t a problem as it was pretty chilly. We also found the queues in November perfectly fine, it took us around half an hour to get through security checks. Again, this might be somewhat more lengthy during summer.

There are two ways to climb the dome – climb all the way by foot (551 steps) or go part way in the lift and climb the rest (320 steps). There is a slight price difference, obviously climbing by foot is slightly cheaper.

People standing at the highest point of the climb at the top of the dome (St Peter's Basilica)
People standing at the highest point of the climb at the top of the dome

Pros – The view! The climb is quite an experience but it’s worth it when you reach the top, even just for bragging rights and a quick instagram snap.

Cons – 551 steps is A LONG WAY! My dad didn’t even bother coming up the dome with us as he hates heights but to be honest, I think he might have found the climb too much of a challenge. In addition to the number of steps there are also parts that are very narrow, especially where you’re climbing inside the curve of the dome.

View inside the Basilica from the interior balcony - St Peter's Basilica, Vatican City.
View inside the Basilica from the interior balcony

Surprises – After the initial climb (or where I believe the lift may take you to) you reach the interior balcony where you are still inside the dome and can look down on the people visiting inside St Peter’s. At first we were a bit like, is this it?! But then we realised you can climb a little further to get those spectacular views from outside and over the square. Oh and there’s a cafe and shop on a terrace part way up too.

Verdict – When in Rome… make this a priority.


If you liked this then you might enjoy the view from Campanile di San Marco in Venice or any of my other View from the Top posts.